How To Win Your Wife Back

Who This Is For

This is for you if you are a high achieving married man who is trying to save your marriage...

Whether your wife wants to save it or not.

You may be facing:

• Separation
• Divorce talks
• Divorce process
• Infidelity (yours or hers or both)
• Hearing "I love. you but I'm not in love with you"
• Emotional affairs

In short, this is for you if your marriage is in BIG TROUBLE and you want to save it...

Whether your wife wants to or not.

As bas as it seems right now...

There Is Hope

You CAN turn things around.

I've seen it happen MANY times.

But you'll have to avoid the 3 FATAL MISTAKES high achieving men make when trying to save their marriage.

These mistakes create LESS trust...

And LESS attraction.

Today I'll teach you what those 3 mistakes ARE...

And what to do INSTEAD...

That will create MORE trust and MORE attraction...

So you can SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE.

How I Can Help You

My name is Mike Frazier, MD.

I am a UCLA trained psychiatrist with...

• A Bacehlor's in Neuroscience from BYU
• A 4 year MD degree from UCLA
• 4 years of psychiatry residency training
• Specialty training in coaching and couples therapy

I've been married since 2005 to the lovely woman pictured above and we have 5 children.

We've had to face our own serious marriage issues including:

• Extreme sexual abuse of my wife (sex trafficking by her parents)

• Sexual difficulties

• Pornography (me)

• Broken trust

• Narcissistic traits (me)

• Depression

• Anxiety

• PTSD

• Major in-law issues

• Parenting disagreements

• Money conflicts

• Major changes in religion (LDS specifically)

• Faith crisis

• Both of us running successful businesses

Despite all this, we've figured out how to be both BEST FRIENDS and PASSIONATE LOVERS.

If we can do it, you can do it!

Besides figuring out what worked to get through these issues in my own marriage...

I've spent the past several years working with men to help them save their marriages.

Here's one of their stories.

Aaron's Story - Infidelity And Wife Filed For Divorce To Intimate Connection

How Did He Get There?

By avoiding the 3 FATAL MISTAKES...

And becoming the STRONGEST and MOST ATTRACTIVE version of himself.

You're going to learn how to do that starting right now...

Fatal Mistake 1 - Trying To Win Her Back

As a high achieving man, you're used to setting goals. and reaching them.

So you figure...

If I want my wife back, I should make that my main goal! Win her back!

Here's why that NEVER works.

Has your wife ever told you that you're controlling?

When you are trying to win her back, you are trying to CONTROL her.

You are trying to CHANGE HER MIND about you.

You say things like "I'm different now! Let's move forward!"

You do things like send her notes, buy her gifts, do the dishes.

But she's not impressed.

Why?

Because she KNOWS you are trying to CHANGE HER MIND.

That your "changes" are really MANIPULATIVE.

And you REALLY show your true colors when you do all these "nice things..."

Then get FRUSTRATED when they "don't work."

You pout, give her the silent treatment, or turn back to pornography or other women.

You're showing that you are not emotionally mature.

Also, when you say your "good deeds" "don't work..."

You're BETRAYING your true motive: TO CHANGE HER MIND.

And that's EXACTLY what she wants space from.

Here's the other reason why trying to win her back won't work.

If you motivation for change is to win her back...

What happens when you do win her back?

Your motivation for change is GONE.

And you're back to the same old you.

The one who hurt his wife enough to make her want to leave.

And your wife DEFINITELY does not want to be with that guy.

What To Do Instead

If you're reading this, you've done things that are not good to your wife.

You've been dishonest. You've cheated on her. You've failed to prioritize her over time. You've put her down.

These are all UNATTRACTIVE traits.

You definitely need to change them.

But your "why" is EXTREMELY important.

Instead of trying to "win her back" or "change her mind..."

You need to commit to changing into a better man.

Not for her.

But for you.

For God.

For your kids.

For your legacy.

You need to commit to change for something MUCH BIGGER than her and OUTSIDE of her.

To put it another way...

You need to commit to being a good, honest, loving man...

EVEN IF SHE DECIDES TO LEAVE.

This is very counterintuitive, but KEY to saving your marriage.

If you are deciding to change for HER...

It's a game you WILL lose.

Because you can't control her.

And if she comes back, you'll go back to your old ways and lose her again.

But if you decide to become a better man for YOU, for God, for your kids...

That's a game you CAN'T LOSE.

Because you'll feel GREAT about who you are, and you'll be a great man and a great catch...

Which also happens to be the MOST LIKELY thing to win her back.

So...

COMMIT NOW to becoming a better man. A better husband. A better father...

NO MATTER WHAT YOUR WIFE CHOOSES.

And commit to DO THE WORK in a clear, structured way...

Ideally with coaching to help you see your blind spots.

Don't resort to the lame "I'm going to work on myself" with no clear plan.

Find a clear program and coach to help you GENUINELY and DEEPLY become the strong, loving, honest man you CAN be...

And who your wife will LOVE being with.

Fatal Mistake 2 - Trying To Sell Your Wife

Imagine going to a used car dealership.

Salesman 1 approaches you.

“I see you’re looking at this car! It’s a great bargain. A little rust, sure. But nothing that can’t be fixed. The timing belt needs to be replaced, but it’s not a big deal. It gets 50 miles per gallon, which will save you lots of money. I’ll give you a great deal on it. Let’s make a deal!”

Do you trust this salesman?

Do you believe that he’s telling you EVERYTHING that’s wrong with the car?

Does his trying to MINIMIZE the rust and engine problems make you MORE or LESS likely to focus on the rust and engine problems?

Does it make you MORE or LESS likely to buy the car?

Do you feel PRESSURED by this salesman?

What is he more interested in?

You getting a good car, or getting the sale?

Do you believe he actually CARES about YOU?

Now, imagine salesman #2.

“Hello sir, I see you’re interested in this car. As you can see, the previous owner didn’t care for it very well. There are these visible rust spots, and if you’ll follow me, I’ll show you a few that some people miss. The engine also has some problems. The timing belt needs to be replaced. It will cost about $500 to repair. We also looked and found that the spark plugs need to be replaced, which will cost about another $300. The car does get good gas milage, somewhere between 40 and even up to 50 miles per gallon sometimes. So, you’ll have to decide if this is a good pick for you given all the issues.”

Do you trust THIS salesman?

Does his MAXIMIZING the car’s problems make you focus on the problems MORE or LESS?

Do you feel PRESSURED by this salesman?

What is he more interested in?

You getting a good car, or getting the sale?

Do you believe he actually CARES about YOU?

You’re reading this because you’ve made mistakes in your marriage.

BIG mistakes.

But, you’re acting more like salesman #1.

Trying to MINIMIZE the negatives and MAXIMIZE the positives.

Telling her to "just trust you" and "put the past in the past and move forward."

It's like you think she has a mental "pros" and "cons" list...

And your job is to CROSS OUT or DISPROVE the cons...

And build up more "pros"...

So the scales tip to "stay with him."

But, this ALWAYS backfires.

Her response is to trust you LESS.

To focus on your mistakes MORE.

To feel PRESSURED and MANIPULATED by you. 

And so, she pulls away. Wants space. And is far LESS likely to choose to be with you.

What you need to do instead is to MAXIMIZE the problems.

See them for how bad they actually are, and TELL her.

Stop calling a broken engine a rust spot.

Stop hiding the rust spots and instead POINT THEM OUT.

For example, some men hide the details of their affair, or say “nothing happened” when something actually did.

They think hiding the rust spot is smart, and showing it to her will make things worse.

But hiding it ALWAYS makes things worse.

Because the #1 attractive trait women want and need is TRUSTWORTHINESS.

So, by being BRUTALLY honest about all your DEFECTS…

You’re actually showing the MOST ATTRACTIVE trait.

You’re also showing you care enough about HER to recognize: 

Hey, I’m a pretty messed up car. I’ve been a LEMON.

Of course, once you recognize it, now it’s time to go to the shop and get those things FIXED.

Being brutally honest about your mistakes is part of being a great man.

But con men sometimes use this trick because it does build trust.

They own their mistakes, then go right on making them.

A TRULY great man recognizes the mistakes… then does something to fix them.

And that's what YOU want to be.

You do the work to figure out WHY you acted in negative, hurtful ways...

So you STOP them once and for all.

You become an expert in managing your thoughts and emotions, so you don't take them out on your wife or act out in harmful ways (like affairs or losing your temper).

You become and expert at communication and intimacy.

At this point, once you've made these "repairs"...

Instead of being a LEMON...

You're a Lamborghini, a Ferrari (whatever your favorite car is).

You feel AMAZING about who you are and...

You're the type of man that a GREAT woman would want.

So, commit NOW to STOP trying to sell your wife on your changes by HIDING your mistakes...

And instead SHOW them CLEARLY...

And then get them FIXED.

And if you want them fixed WELL and QUICKLY...

Hire a professional.

Fatal Mistake 3 - Chasing Instead Of Choosing

In nature, we RUN from things that are chasing us.

If this shark was chasing you in the water, you would be trying to get away ASAP!

In human interactions, we RUN from negative emotional states. 

Here are your overriding thoughts, and their associated feelings, as you’re trying to win your wife back:

Thought: “I’ll do ANYTHING to get my wife back!”

Feeling: Needy, desperate

Thought: “I don’t know what I’ll do without her!”

Feeling: Anxious, Fearful

Thought: “I can’t believe this is happening to me!”

Feeling: Helpless

Thought: “This is hopeless. No matter what I do, nothing works.”

Feeling: Hopeless, depressed

Thought: “Well, screw her anyway. I’ll find someone new.”

Feeling: Anger, resentment

Needy, desperate, anxious, fearful, helpless, hopeless, depressed, angry, resentful.

Are these ATTRACTIVE emotional states?

This is another reason why trying to “win her back” will NEVER work.

It creates a game you CAN NOT WIN.

Trying to change her mind NEVER works (refer back to mistake 1)...

And creates UNATTRACTIVE feeling states…

Which push her away EVEN MORE.

Instead, you have to focus on becoming the man that a GREAT woman would want.

A man who is confident and completely trustworthy.

An expert at listening, communication and getting through conflict.

An expert at flirting, fun and intimacy.

When you become this man…

You are the man that GREAT women WANT and will THROW ASIDE all others to be with.

You become a REAL LIFE Prince Charming.

You have your CHOICE of women.

Like Prince Charming in Cinderella. 

It’s not JUST that Prince Charming chose Cinderella.

It’s that he chose her over HUNDREDS, maybe THOUSANDS of other options.

For a more modern example, look at “The Bachelor.”

Why do women sign up for The Bachelor, when they KNOW this guy is kissing and even SLEEPING with other women?

Because women want to be CHOSEN by the man that great women want.

In Cinderella’s time… and today.

So when you become THAT man...

And then CHOOSE your wife…

You’ve made her life (and yours) a real life fairy tale.

She’s bragging to her friends about you, while they say “I wish my husband was more like yours.”

She’s telling your boys to be just like you, and your girls to marry someone just like you.

She jumps into your arms at the end of the day, and your intimate life is better than it’s ever been.

You CAN get here.

You just have to learn the necessary skills to become that Prince Charming.

And when you are that Prince Charming, you FEEL it.

You feel CONFIDENT.

You feel STRONG.

And those feelings ATTRACT your wife...

Instead of REPELLING her.

And you CAN create those attractive states ON DEMAND...

And MAINTAIN them.

It's something we cover VERY intensely in The Strong Man System.

Summary

Here's what you need to STOP and START doing TODAY to save your marriage.

1. Stop trying to "win her back." Instead, commit to becoming a strong, loving and honest man...EVEN IF SHE CHOOSES TO LEAVE.

2. Stop trying to sell your wife on your good points and stop minimizing your bad points. Instead, POINT OUT your bad points, APOLOGIZE for them the RIGHT way, and then FIX THEM. 

3. STOP CHASING your wife, and become the man that great women chase and will throw aside all others to be with.

End Of Training

That's the end of the training.

Now for those who are interested and committed to getting to WORK...

I'm going to tell you about the program I have to show you EXACTLY how to become that Prince Charming.

The type of man that a GREAT woman would be extremely ATTRACTED to...

And throw aside all others to be with.

The Strong Man System

The Strong Man System is my 30 day program designed for high achieving men who are trying to save their marriage.

There are 3 main things you need to do to save your marriage... and create an incredible connection.

Here's What You Will Cover Over The 30 Day Program

Phase 1 - Restore Trust

In this phase, you will...

• Recognize your negative thinking and emotional patterns that are damaging your marriage
• Apologize (the right way) for these behaviors
• Define clearly who you want to be as a man, and work towards that each day (so you SHOW your wife you are changing instead of TELLING her)
• Learn strategies that will ACCELERATE the trust building process (even after infidelity)

Phase 2 - Improve Communication

In this phase you will learn to...

• Respond to her anger in a positive way
• Make sure she feels mentally and emotionally SAFE with you
• Make sure she feels HEARD and UNDERSTOOD by you
• Have hard conversations that turn into more CONNECTION instead of CONFLICT
• Reach agreements that work for BOTH of you about money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework and other difficult issues

Phase 3 - Create Intimacy

In this phase you will learn how to...

• Bring back fun and flirting to your marriage
• Set and maintain appropriate boundaries (remember: women are attracted to STRENGTH)
• Create a sexual connection that reflects the deep mental and emotional connection you've learned to create

What You Get With The Strong Man System

You'll learn all of this through a 30 day program delivered online through an engaging and convenient website and mobile app.

Listen to modules ANYWHERE and ANY TIME. On your drive, during your workout, at lunch etc.

Each day for 30 days you'll receive...

• An email with the day's work
• A video to teach you a new skill
• Worksheets or assignments to practice that skill

Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength and skill building is just like building any other strength or skill.

If you're learning to play golf, you learn the principles of the swing...

And then you go out and hit the ball.

The videos show you the principles of building trust, communication and intimacy in your marriage.

The worksheets and exercises are your practice "swings."

The Strong Man System is your complete system to become the STRONG and ATTRACTIVE man that GREAT women LONG to be with... and will THROW ASIDE all others to get to.

Normally, The Strong Man System Costs $6,000

You'll have to decide if it's worth that price, but consider... 

A DIVORCE will cost you HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS to MILLIONS of dollars (losing half your assets, child support and alimony, etc.)...

Along with SIGNIFICANT emotional and mental pain (loneliness, battles over kids, reputation damage, etc.).

Even if you do end up getting divorced, if learning these skills helps you reduce legal fees by more than $6,000 by learning to COMMUNICATE better with your wife...

Or significantly REDUCES the emotional and mental pain and suffering (which these skills WILL)...

Or makes your kids want to spend more time with you (which these skills WILL)...

Many high achieving men would consider those results to be worth at least $6,000.

But, if you act in the next 

You Can Get The Whole System For

$6,000

$1997 or 3 Monthly Payments of $767

Now, 30 days is ABSOLUTELY enough time to save a marriage in some cases.

And, the online materials by themselves are enough to give you EXACTLY what you need to become the STRONG and ATTRACTIVE man that a GREAT woman will want to be with.

But, I want to do more for you.

My goal is to help AS MANY MEN AS POSSIBLE to save their marriage...

Or weather their divorce well, have a great relationship with their children, and be ready for their next romantic relationship.

That's why I'm adding several BONUSES to give you the best help that I can.

After the 30 day program, if you are feeling like BEST FRIENDS and PASSIONATE LOVERS with your wife...

You may want to REVIEW some of the things you learned in the program so you can KEEP YOUR MOMENTUM.

Also, in many cases, it takes MORE than 30 days to SHOW your changes.

That's why, if you act before the timer expires, you'll also get

BONUS 1 - LIFETIME ACCESS to The Strong Man System

These modules are delivered on an engaging mobile app, so you can listen to them ANYWHERE and ANY TIME.

Click "Get Strong Now" and let's build up your STRENGTH and ATTRACTIVENESS.

Trying to save your marriage, especially when your wife doesn't want to save it (yet) can be a very LONELY process.

It can be helpful to have support not just from me, but from other men who have walked the same road... and come out on top.

That's why, if you join before the timer expires, you'll also get...

Bonus 2 - 60 Days Access To Program Mentors

These are men who have been through The Strong Man System and have created GREAT results for themselves.

They can help you feel supported, and share the wisdom they've learned.

The videos, modules and mentors will help you know EXACTLY what to do to build yourself into the STRONG and ATTRACTIVE man that GREAT women want to be with.

BUT, you'll still have times where you'll want to ask questions.

You might not understand exactly how to do a certain skill...

Or you might wonder how to apply it to your situation.

Like I said, my goal is to HELP YOU.

That's why along with the online modules, you'll also get...

Bonus 3 - 60 Days of UNLIMITED Q&A With Me

I want you to know you can ask ANY question ANY time...

And AS MANY questions as you would like.

I want to hear from you and I want to help you through this process.

It's what I love to do!

Now, getting your written questions answered any time is great.

But, sometimes it's nice to talk 1 on 1 with your coach.

You may want to practice some of the skills, get immediate feedback, or even rehearse a difficult conversation with your wife.

Plus, I like getting face to face time with the men I'm helping.

So, in addition to LIFETIME access to the materials and 60 days access to mentors and Q&A with me, you'll also get

Bonus 4 - 60 Days Access To My 1 on 1 Office Hours

You'll have access to my personal schedule so we can speak in a 1 on 1 setting.

Your wife can even join these sessions if she would like.

Money Back Guarantee

I can't guarantee that doing the work in The Strong Man System will save your marriage.

I can't control your wife's decisions, and neither can you.

BUT, I CAN guarantee that if you do the work, you will...

• Have a clear sense of purpose for. your life
• Have definite skills and tools to manage your own thoughts and emotions expertly
• Be better at communicating than you have EVER been
• Have the most self awareness you've ever had
• Know how to create a relationship where you find solutions that work for BOTH of you
• Know how to create fun, flirting and passion
• And because of all this, feel STRONGER and be MORE ATTRACTIVE than you have ever been

All of this also happens to be the MOST LIKELY thing that will save your marriage.

But even if it doesn't, you are now a great EXAMPLE to your kids, you feel GREAT about who you are, and you are READY for your next romantic relationship.

So, if you do the work and don't feel like it was worth your investment...

That you got the results above...

Just let me know and I'll give you your money back.

I'll want your feedback to make the program better, which is worth MUCH more than $1997 to me. 

Here's a review of what you get when you join The Strong Man System...

• LIFETIME access to the online course, so you can review it ANY time
• My help writing your apology letter so it makes a POSITIVE impact (and avoids backfiring)
• 60 days access to mentors who have been in your shoes to guide you through the process
• 60 days access to ask me ANY question ANY time as OFTEN as you want
• 60 days access to my 1 on 1 office hours to get your questions answered LIVE, practice difficult conversations, or even talk together with your wife
• Money Back Guarantee. Do the work. If it's not worth your investment, you get your investment back.

The normal price for this program is $6,000.

But, if you join in the next...

You can get the ENTIRE PROGRAM for...

The Bigger Mission

This course is really about becoming better men.

The mission of The Strong Man System is for us as men to be...

• Strong and loving leaders of our homes
• Examples of REAL manhood to ourselves, our families and the world
• Creators of a better world through stronger families
• And for my Christian brothers, to help prepare the world for the Second Coming of Jesus

If that's a message that resonates with you, click "Get Strong Now"...

You'll get INSTANT ACCESS to the course materials, mentors, Q&A with me and my personal 1 on 1 calendar.

I'm looking forward to working with you!

I'll see you inside.

Dr. Mike

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